Parenting By Design: Understand Your Child.
Transform Your Family
Discover how your child is uniquely wired — and how to support them without power struggles, confusion or burnout.
✔ Understand your child’s behaviour
✔ Improve communication at home
✔ Make calmer parenting decisions
Why Parenting Feels Harder Than It Should
- "Why won’t my child listen?”
- “Why does one child need constant reassurance while another wants independence?”
- “Why do I feel like I’m doing everything right but still getting it wrong?”
Most parenting advice assumes all children are the same.
Human Design shows they are unique!
Every Child Has Their Own Energetic Blueprint
Your childs Human Design chart reveals:
- how your child communicates
- how they make decisions
- what motivates their behaviour
- what triggers conflict
When parents understand this blueprint, discipline becomes guidance and conflict becomes understanding.
Why Children Behave The Way They Do
When a child’s true needs aren’t understood, behaviour often shows up as one of five mistaken motivations.
Example format:
• Attention seeking
• Power struggles
• Revenge reactions
• Withdrawal
• Feeling inadequate
These behaviours are not bad children — they are misunderstood needs.
Start Where You Are
It Couldn't Be Easier
Option 1 - Human Design Family Reading
Best for: Parents who want clarity.
What you get:
- Each family members Human Design chart
- A combined family chart
- Communication insights
- Decision-making styles
- Behaviour triggers
Option 2 - Family Coaching
Best for: Parents wanting ongoing support.
Includes:
- Personalised guidance
- Support navigating real situations
- Implementing the design in everyday parenting
- Full range of Human Design charts
Option 3 - Parenting By Design Course
Best for: Parents wanting a full system.
Learn:
- How each aura type parents
- How children learn and decide
- How to handle challenging behaviour
- How to build a harmonious family dynamic
- Options include course only, course with 1:1 coaching & courses for groups
What's Your Child's Aura Type?
Generator
35.9% of the population
✦ Here To: Discover who they are
✦ Need You To: Help them run off their energy
✦ Emotional Theme: Frustration/Satisfaction
✦ Play theme: Mastery
Manifesting Generator
30.4% of the population
✦ Here To: Discover themselves and find the fastest way to...
✦ Need You To: Help them run off their energy and encourage multitasking
✦ Emotional Theme: Anger and Frustration/Satisfaction
✦ Play Theme: Exploration and Mastery (Leap frog…)
Projector
22.5% of the population
✦ Here To: Manage and guide others
✦ Need You To: Give them your 1:1 attention
✦ Emotional Theme: Bitterness/Success
✦ Play Theme: Value (What am I good at? What do I know that others don’t?)
Manifestor
9.8% of the population
✦ Here To: Get things started
✦ Need You To: Let them follow their creative flow
✦ Emotional Theme: Anger/Peace
✦ Play Theme: Exploration
Reflector
1.4% of the population
✦ Here To: Sample and reflect the health of their community
✦ Need You To: Encourage them to take time over decision making
✦ Emotional Theme: Disappointment/ Surprise
✦ Play Theme: Who does this energy belong to?
Short Success Stories
From Conflict to Flow
One mum came to me feeling exhausted by constant clashes with her child. Both were Manifestors, and their home felt full of sudden reactions and emotional explosions.
Once she understood the initiation process—that both of them needed space to act independently and simply inform each other first—everything softened.
Now, instead of conflict, there’s flow. They “gel” with ease, and those intense moments have been replaced with mutual respect and understanding.
From Frustration To Freedom
A parent felt confused and concerned that her daughter could never “stick to one thing.” Projects were started and dropped, interests changed quickly, and it all felt chaotic.
Through understanding her child’s Manifesting Generator energy, she realised this wasn’t a problem—it was her brilliance.
Now she supports her daughter’s natural way of multi-passionate exploration, and what once felt like inconsistency is now seen as creativity, efficiency and joy.
From Pressure To Confidence
One parent noticed her son becoming increasingly withdrawn and compliant, especially compared to his high-energy sibling.
Through coaching, she realised her son was a Projector, not designed to sustain the same level of energy as a Generator.
When she stopped pushing and began recognising his unique way of engaging, something beautiful happened…
His confidence grew. He began contributing in his own way—calmly, wisely, and with a quiet self-assurance that hadn’t been there before.
My parents didn’t get the manual and I bet yours didn’t either!
Hi, I’m Nicky, your family guide
If you’re struggling to communicate with your child, you’re not alone—and it’s not because you’re doing anything wrong.
Most of us were never given a “manual” for how our children are uniquely wired. What I’ve discovered through my own journey and years of working with families is this: many challenges come down to simply not understanding how your child naturally thinks, feels, and responds.
Through Parenting by Design, I help you understand your child’s unique nature so you can move from frustration and conflict to calm, connection, and clarity—without needing to become a “perfect” parent.
It’s about finally seeing what makes your child tick… and knowing how to respond in a way that truly works.
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Your Family Doesn’t Need Fixing.
It needs understanding.
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Want even more support?
Add one-on-one coaching to your course for individualised guidance or create a group program, connecting like-minded parents and grow together.
Self Study
Explore the Parenting By Design Course at your own pace with our self-study option. Dive into the material on your schedule, gaining valuable insights and tools to foster harmony in your home. Upon completing the course, you'll receive a personalised family planning session to help you apply what you've learned, tailored specifically to your family's unique needs and dynamics. This flexible option empowers you to transform your parenting journey on your terms, with expert guidance to support
✓ Over 5 hours of video content & course slides
✓ Free 45 minute 1:1 Family Planning Session
✓ Parenting Workbook
✓ Family Manifesto Template
✓ Guided practice sessions
Tailor Made
Unlock the full potential of your parenting journey with the Parenting By Design supported study program. This comprehensive course includes everything you need to thrive as a parent, plus the added benefit of four personalised 1:1 family coaching sessions over 8 weeks. You'll also receive detailed reports tailored to each family member, helping you to understand and support their unique needs. Get the guidance and tools to create a harmonious, connected family life.
✓ Everything in the self study program
✓ 4x 45 minute personalised Family Coaching Sessions
✓ Recorded message service during office hours
Parenting Course FAQs
How is Quantum Human Design ™ coaching different from other coaching programs?
Quantum Human Design™ coaching offers a unique, personalised approach by using your energetic blueprint to guide decision-making, relationships, and life choices. Unlike traditional coaching, it taps into your true nature and potential, aligning your actions with your authentic self. This system fosters deep self-awareness and empowers sustainable change, making it a transformative tool for personal growth and purposeful living.
What materials and tools will I get with the program?
You’ll get videos, audios, digital manual with release to print a physical copy, plus weekly consultation zoom calls or face to face (for groups) if you choose the ‘Tailor Made’ plan.
When can I start to change my parenting style?
You can dive right in and start at your own pace with this self-study course—there's nothing stopping you! But before making any shifts in your parenting style, it's key to check in on your own resilience. Your little one will feel the changes, and may even react with more intensity. That's why we've added extra support. If you're facing ongoing parenting challenges, I highly recommend adding weekly 1:1 sessions for additional guidance and support.
Can I contact you with additional questions?
Absolutely! If you've chosen the 1:1 coaching ‘Tailor Made’ package, you have access to a voice message service during office hours where you can ask your parenting questions and get the support you need.
I am in a different time zone, will this work for me?
I support a global community of parents and offer flexible access to training. To accommodate your schedule, all voice message calls are available as replays, so you never miss out and the self study is available to you 24/7.
My work hours are 10am-7:30pm GMT for 1:1 Family Coaching Calls. Contact me to check my availability.
Approximately 2-3 hours per week
I work with parents from all over the world and make sure the training is accessible no matter where you are. Each week, I provide study videos and thoughtful questions for you to reflect on and implement at your own pace. If you're working with me 1:1, you also have the chance to pre-submit your reflections and questions so we can dive even deeper during our sessions.
It’s your choice whether to follow the weekly pace, this is simply a guide to help you maintain momentum.
Nicky Mendham
Human Design Specialist
Contact
Telephone: +44 7545 569874
E-mail: contactsoulseducation.com
Address: Penzance, Cornwall, UK
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